May 4, 2008

Question:

My name is Rochelle im 21 with a baby im a single parent...I want to know will i ever find the guy of my dreams or a guy period im starting to give up on all of my dreams and stuff
please help me

Answer:

I had a hard time picking a reading for this week as I received many entries that I felt I needed to answer, but I can't answer them all. I chose this one because it was the one my guide, and or, Rochelle's guide directed me to. It is hard at times to know who's guide is directing me unless I'm getting direct information from them, at which point I know who's talking to me *smile*
Thank you all for sending in your inquiry's and I will keep them on file for the future.

Rochelle,

I was immediately hit with an 8 month time period for you. Timing is not my strong suit, and normally I need to ask specifically but this time it was simply given to me, so because of that, I expect that it means you can count on the reading coming to fruition within this period. Please give it some leeway of course but I don't expect it to be too far from 8 months from now.

The first thing I see as we enter the situation you have written about is that you are afraid of starting over, and one of the things I find interesting about you is on one hand you have the excitement and the actual hope of finding someone, and on the other hand your very angry, broken hearted, refuse to take a chance and be made a fool of, but at the very same time DO want to believe that fate has something wonderful in store for you. So let me say that you need to work on the pain you feel, you need to try as hard as you can to forgive what has come before, and what others have done to you.

You need to let go a bit of thinking that what you want and what a guy may want are always going to be different and that you're always going to be at cross purposes because there is a guy who is pretty down to earth, trustworthy, financially responsible and dependable. He isn't someone who talks a lot, and I think you know him from work or will know him from work. He is highly practical, likes things like science or math, things he can count on and talk about because he is knowledgeable in those areas. Okay, you may at first be a bit bored with him *smile* but believe me, he's a straight shooter, he's a one woman guy and that may be just what you need. Try to get over the other guy you're still thinking of, try to get over the regret and the loss so you can be open for the guy that's coming in soon. This guy is someone who will make a great husband and father. Put the effort in, it's worth it.


Love,
Adena